Knowledge is power, and it can help you overcome any fear of the unexpected. When you learn, you gain more awareness through the process, and you know what pitfalls to look for as you get ready to transition to the next level.

-Jay Shetty

  • Anxiety and Stress

    The Anxiety & Phobia Workbook - Edmund Bourne

    When Panic Attacks - David Burns

    Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle - Amelia Nagoski and Emily Nagoski

    The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression, and the Conversations We Aren't Having — JoEllen Notte

    The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck - Mark Manson

    Unfuck Your Brain -Faith Harper

    Stop Doing That Shit -Gary John Bishop

  • Desire

    Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections - Emily Nagoski

    Better Sex Through Mindfulness — Lori Brotto

    Come As You Are - Emily Nagoski

    Enduring Desire: Your Guide to Lifelong Intimacy - Metz & McCarthy

    Love Worth Making: How to have Ridiculously Great Sex in a Long-lasting Relationship - Stephen Snyder

    Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence - Esther Perel

    Desire: An Inclusive Guide to Navigating Libido Differences in Relationships - Lauren Fogel Mersy

  • Gender

    A Quick and Easy Guide to They/Them Pronouns — Archie Bongiovanni

    Beyond Magenta - Susan Kuklin

    Gracefully Grayson - Ami Polonsky

    My Gender Workbook - Kate Bornstein

    The Transgender Child - Stephanie Brill & Rachel Pepper

  • Infidelity

    Getting Past the Affair: A Program to Help You Cope, Heal, and Move On - Together Or Apart - Donald H. Baucom, Douglas K. Snyder, and Kristina Coop Gordon

    The State of Affairs - Esther Perel

  • Trauma

    Reclaiming Pleasure: A Sex Positive Guide for Moving Past Sexual Trauma and Living a Passionate Life - Holly Richmond PhD

    The Body Keeps The Score: Brain, Mind & Body in the Healing of Trauma - Bessel Van der Kolk

    Trauma and Recovery - Judith Herman

    Pleasure Activism: The Politics of Feeling Good — Adrienne Maree Brown

    Call of the Wild — Kimberly Johnson

    Good Sex — Jessica Graham

  • Kink

    Cuff, Tied and Satisfied: A Kinky Guide to the Best Sex Ever - Jaiya

    Sexual Outsiders -Richard Sprott and David Ortman

    The New Topping Book - Janet Hardy & Dossie Easton

    The New Bottoming Book - Janet Hardy & Dossie Easton

    Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge — Tristan Taormino

    When Someone You Love Is Kinky - Dossie Easton & Catherine Liszt

  • Intimacy

    Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find - and Keep - Love - Amir Levine & Rachel Heller

    Hold Me Tight - Sue Johnson

    Love Sense - Sue Johnson

    Loving With The Brain In Mind - Mona Fishbane

    The Black Girls’ Guide to Couple’s Intimacy - Lexx Brown-James

    The High Conflict Couple - Alan Fruzzetti

    The Seven Principles of Making Marriage Work - John Gottman

    All the F*cking Mistakes: A Guide to Sex, Love, and Life - Gigi Engle

  • Body Image

    Your Body is Not an Apology & Workbook by Sonya Renee Taylor

    Body Positive Power by Megan Crabbe

    The Gifts of Imperfection by Brené Brown

    Happy Fat by Sofie Hagen 

    Health at Every Size by Linda Bacon

    Hunger by Roxane Gay

    You Have the Right to Remain Fat by Virgie Tovar

  • Non-Monogomy

    Love is Not Color Blind: Race and Representation in Polyamorous and Other Alternative Communities — Kevin A Patterson

    Loving More: Supporting Polyamory, Ethical Non-Monogamy & New Models for Relationships

    Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships - Tristan Taormino

    Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Non-monogamy — Jessica Fern

    The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships, & Other Adventures -Janet Hardy & Dossie Easton

    Jealousy Workbook: Exercises and Insights for Managing Open Relationships — Kathy Labriola